Those that raised us

Who is really included in the village that it takes?

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by Lily Ferguson / Garnet & Black

 

I was a gift of '99

turn of the century

becoming another branch

of the ever-expanding tree


And there was always someone

next door

around the corner

over the river, through the woods


six grandmas 

two dads

one mom

about seven aunts –


And everyone's got a birthday:

cousins of the fourth and fifth variety,

aunts of the uncles,

sisters of our childhood best friends.


So now I've found

(above all),

I’m a family man;

we all are.


my grandma’s

best friend’s

daughter’s

husband


and his 

father’s

brother’s

kids


all were raised 


on game show network,

Jimmy Buffet radio,

open mic bar stools,

best friend’s cool tile floors


a 2005 honda accord

that picked me up in 3rd grade

raised me


without her

we walked home

to our best friend’s moms

and mom’s best friends


two, three and four 

fathers and mothers

we grew

till 11 ... 12 ... 13 ...


so many miss’s 

mister’s 

yes ma’am,

no ma’am


raised to be polite 

raised by my tree

raised beyond blood

raised to go on


so that soon,  

together,

we will raise

something else to care for.

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